"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Very un-dj like move..how to recover?

shark

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In my LTR...i admit i've toned down the DJ skills a bit, but nothing like an AFC. I keep my cool, but i'm also a lot more sensitive of a boyfriend then that of a DJ....but its been working out..celebrating a year together.

Anyway--i really messed up when were on the phone discussing what resturant we would go too...i made her name choices then I chose and asked how it was..she even questioned my masculinity when i "couldnt make a decesion". Do I make an good excuse about it and recover, or forget it..or do somtin to show im no wuss

hmm
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WC2

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Don't think too much about it. What's done is done, learn from your mistakes.
 

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an afc thing to do would be to go overboard trying to compensate for it. its already done, like WC2 said. keep moving forward, shouldnt be a problem
 

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Were only human man. Its ok to flub up once in awhile. As long as no bad habits are gained. Actually like any mistake you make, move on. Don't dwell.
 
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