"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tmac15

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Alright,

This is gonna sound selfish but.. My gf good friend supposedly attempted suicide about 3 days ago. My gf blames herself and I haven't got to spend time with her lately and it looks like anytime in the near future. How do I approach this. I dont want to be insensitive, but I want to see my girl. Suggestions please?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My girlfriend tried to commit sucide on many occassions...after we broke up. She moved away, dyed her hair, and legally changer her name cause she hated her mother.

My advice: get a doctor to talk to her. Yes, I know you want to see you, and I'm not sure how long you have gone out, but her health is more important.

If you love her, then make sure she recieves the help she needs.
 
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This is your girlfriend's friend? I don't know what you relationship dynamic is like, but if you want to see her just say something like this:
"Don't you think it would be easier to deal if you surrounded yourself by your loved ones, family, friends, etc. than sitting isolated and alone?"
Obviously not phrased exactly like that, but you get the idea.
 
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