"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Very strange relationship situation

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tmac15

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Alright,

This is gonna sound selfish but.. My gf good friend supposedly attempted suicide about 3 days ago. My gf blames herself and I haven't got to spend time with her lately and it looks like anytime in the near future. How do I approach this. I dont want to be insensitive, but I want to see my girl. Suggestions please?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My girlfriend tried to commit sucide on many occassions...after we broke up. She moved away, dyed her hair, and legally changer her name cause she hated her mother.

My advice: get a doctor to talk to her. Yes, I know you want to see you, and I'm not sure how long you have gone out, but her health is more important.

If you love her, then make sure she recieves the help she needs.
 
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TheBucketOfTruth

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This is your girlfriend's friend? I don't know what you relationship dynamic is like, but if you want to see her just say something like this:
"Don't you think it would be easier to deal if you surrounded yourself by your loved ones, family, friends, etc. than sitting isolated and alone?"
Obviously not phrased exactly like that, but you get the idea.
 
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