"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Very strange relationship situation

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tmac15

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Alright,

This is gonna sound selfish but.. My gf good friend supposedly attempted suicide about 3 days ago. My gf blames herself and I haven't got to spend time with her lately and it looks like anytime in the near future. How do I approach this. I dont want to be insensitive, but I want to see my girl. Suggestions please?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My girlfriend tried to commit sucide on many occassions...after we broke up. She moved away, dyed her hair, and legally changer her name cause she hated her mother.

My advice: get a doctor to talk to her. Yes, I know you want to see you, and I'm not sure how long you have gone out, but her health is more important.

If you love her, then make sure she recieves the help she needs.
 
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TheBucketOfTruth

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This is your girlfriend's friend? I don't know what you relationship dynamic is like, but if you want to see her just say something like this:
"Don't you think it would be easier to deal if you surrounded yourself by your loved ones, family, friends, etc. than sitting isolated and alone?"
Obviously not phrased exactly like that, but you get the idea.
 
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