"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Very Odd Question about Her

MrCrankyPants

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I have a very odd question about a woman that I worked with whom I was trying to bang. I know this is pointless but I just want to know what she was doing.

I met her at work and she showed interest in me and told me that she likes me. We kino'd each other etc. Well one day I was in the office at work along with this woman and my boss, when I decided to go outside and smoke. I asked this girl to go outside and smoke with me and she said yes. But she just sat there up on the desk so I grabbed her arms and was pulling her off the desk gentley of course, when I guess she thought it was inappropiate to do that in front of my boss since she is not a single woman and I had my hands on her and she said "this is Harrassment" My boss just laughed and said to bad. I am sure she was joking but I guess she said that because my boss may wonder why she lets me put my hands on her since she is not single.

Well I go home after we smoked and when I get back to work. I had a note saying Watch how many times a day you go outside to smoke the managers are watching. So I ask around and was told that my boss wrote that to mess with my head. Because the woman I like told him that I am paranoid about going outside and smoking because I think managers are watching me. Which is true I did think that. Then she tells my boss that I will only come over to her house when her boyfriend/husband is not at home. Of course this blows my mind why she would tell my boss that. For one it would make her look bad in letting a guy come over when her boyfriend/husband is not home. Plus my boss later told me that when she told him that I will only come over when her boyfriend/husband he knew something was going on. Secondly It was her idea for me to come over when he was not home. Because I refused to come over when he was there. She would ask me to come to their parties. But why when she said she liked me and I liked her would she want me to come to parties at her house when her boyfriend/husband was there?????????

The point behind the first paragraph is because I figured it is what sparked the convo about me and her with my boss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amokk23

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LOL!

Sounds like She is a VERY good female DJ; signs of speed seduction, neg hits etc on Her part. :D She playing with you man, watch it.

Does she have kids? Personally I will not ever break up a marraige when kids are involved.
 

captn caveman

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Unlike a DJ, sounds like a snake to me...

First, get your attention, than f.ck you left and right...

Seems to be distancing yourself is the best thing you can do, and if any rumours are spread, reply to them without pity.

This kind of women is full of venom, man,

be careful not to be poisoned..

Or, just play her game, and be a snake with the snake..
 

MrCrankyPants

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Originally posted by captn caveman
Unlike a DJ, sounds like a snake to me...

First, get your attention, than f.ck you left and right...

Seems to be distancing yourself is the best thing you can do, and if any rumours are spread, reply to them without pity.

This kind of women is full of venom, man,

be careful not to be poisoned..

Or, just play her game, and be a snake with the snake..
What do you mean by being poisoned? do you mean she will try to get me in trouble??? Also when my boss told me these things I said why the heII would she tell you these things!!! Then I told him that she can go fuxk herself and I hate her then he said ""Don't do her like that she is your friend." Which is a very odd comment in itself not to mention odd because he doesn't value friendships in the least. Wonder why he said that ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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