"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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very newbie rafc question

Zog

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I need some tips for approaching in loud enviroments. Im thinking specifically of a very loud mall. Ive never had a very loud voice, and although there are other ways I could stop a group, I wouldnt be able to keep them interested at all w/o being able to talk to them.

Should I just work on talking louder? Does anybody know some voice exercises that could help with that? I want to work on getting a more powerful voice anyway so this could be helpful.

Im going to be taking singing lessons soon, so that should help, but something I could do now would be awesome.

Thanks thanks!

Z

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Annother question. Im working on packaging my life now in story form in a way I can pieces of it when I need to. I have alot of stories that would be..self depreciating. (like the fact that I was playing a single MMORPG video game for 5 years 8+ hours a day:( ..) Im wondering If I should even bother talking about stuff like that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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johnmich

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5 years, 8+ EVERY DAY ??

thats like my little bro. He sits on the PC all day and all night and never goes out. Hes nearly 16 and hasnt had a beer yet WTF?

~ ONE exercise you can do is open you mouth and go aaahhh. Then close your mouth and start going hhmmmmmm. try getting it so that your nose and throat resinate and vibrate and practice talking at a similar pitch
 

Zog

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Thanks for the voice exercise.

Yeah I did way to much. It was deffinetly a mistake, but I only slightly regret it.

If you wanna try and get your lil bro to do other things try this...Start bringing him out and teaching him social interactions as If it was a video game. RPG video games all have skills that you pump up by using them. Thats the comparasion I made for myself that helped me with a few things. Come to think of it..maybe I will try thinking like that with my current issues with going out and practicing game.
 

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I actually prefer not to operate in loud environments. I just find that I can't be bothered with all the noise.

However, you should note that a louder environment will work to reduce the importance of WHAT you say in comparison as to HOW you say it - in other words, body language and kino increase in proportional importance.
 

Skilla_Staz

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This could lead to having to lean in for her to hear you. Close is good ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i agree with luscious also if you don't have a loud voice that might not be the place for you if you want to approach go somewhere where there are girls working like at a local a grocery a big one like kroger and start talking if it is crazy **** that's what i don't it gets girls laughing but sometimes when you approach you'll get a *****y type of girl like i'm too good for you or to clean toilets just **** these girls and move on and one day you'll be a big pimp like me
 
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