"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Very nervous... need info

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Leon Phelps

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Let me introduce myself.

Im 15, and have never had a girlfriend in my entire life. Until a month ago, it was because of my AFC ways, no doubt, and the fact that i was extremely shy. I have changed, and now talk to more than 3 times the people i did before i found this website. I am very grateful.

I have one question, and im sure that many of you will find it stupid and sophomoric, but remember that everyone has a different problem and perspective on things.

I have never kissed a girl. EVER. Which makes me very nervous considering i know of 2 girls that i wud like to date who feel the same way (this good fortune is thanks to this site). Anyways, i am nervous that my inexperience will make me a "bad kisser"

Is there any method to it, or am i getting nervous over nothing?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DuckMan

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Click search at the top right, and type in "kissing makeout tips"
 
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Leon Phelps

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yeah there is nothing useful there, i just need someone to tell me if theres a method or if im going crazy for nuthin
 
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First kisses usually aren't great, even between two experienced people. The fact is, if you've never kissed anybody before, then you won't know their style. Try doing a search on google or yahoo, I'd bet that's the best place to find help from.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Julian

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Damn yo i remember making out with chicks when like 5th grade lol. Good thing ig ot experience early and have no perfected the art of kissing.

And remember, she might be a bad kisser too.
 
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Originally posted by Julian
Damn yo i remember making out with chicks when like 5th grade lol. Good thing ig ot experience early and have no perfected the art of kissing.
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Too bad you havent perfected the art of spelling :rolleyes:

(and yes, Ive detected the sarcasm of your post ;) )
 
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The only way you can become a good kisser is through experience. Everyone was a crappy kisser at some point in their lives, but the more you do it, the better you get at it :p This pretty much applies to everything.
 
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