Very interesting AIM convo

[Zero Hero]

This is a convo with a girl I have been talking to with on AIM for a few months....I'm not pursuing her, but we both are just good online friends and we vent to each other....she IMs me about every day and said she feels like I'm her "best friend" so there's a lot of trust and I'm an AFC to her lol. I've seen her pic and she's probably a 7 so no ugly here. This is just rather insightful and shows what is talked about on these forums. She had been complaining about guys who try to talk to her at college.



[20:35] Me: but i am trying to be more gutsy and not care if i get shot down
[20:35] Me: cause u know what...it honestly feels pretty good to get shot down
[20:35] Me: lol
[20:35] Her: that's actually what i'm looking for
[20:36] Her: i'm looking for a guy i can shoot down once but whose gutsy enough for a second round and a means of proving he's not like those other guys who go with a whimper or mean me harm
[20:36] Her: it tells me he's socially healthy and really interested

 

[WC2]

Not always true! In fact, most of what girls say they want in guys is not true.

Women think one thing, but feel another. In other words, women don't even know what they want in most cases.

Take for example a girl you meet who you totally take by surprise. Next thing you know, she's so overwhelmed and swept off her feet that you're sleeping with her next thing you know.

Now a girl will never say they want to be taken by surprise and manhandled. She'll never say she wants a guy that doesn't tend to all her needs, but makes her feel incredible.

Hell no, women don't know what they want. All they know is when they feel it, they feel it.

 

[Zero Hero]

Nah, girls who you've built "friend trust" with like this girl are usually pretty honest.

 

[persiangino]

Um, I hope you're kidding.

 

[WC2]

Maybe true, but rarely honest with themselves.

 

[LAWYER]

interesting mine goes like this
from a total stranger girl


after talking to girls and filtering the ugly once after i see there pic


the conversation goes something like this

Me; hey brat
Her: im not a brat
Me: do you look good
Her: hell yea
Me: do you have a pic
Her; no
me; ok fine bye
me: you could be one of those guys pretending to be a girl so you can molest me
her: lol no im a girl
then she send me her pic

ME; you dont look scary
her: lol
Me; do you want to talk on the phone like a normal person
they usually pause for a while then say ok
her: ok
Me;whats your #
her: 123412341233

then i call

the real conversation is a little bit longer than that.... but thats the outline i use..... any body got a girl form aol instant messenger? this was a while ago when chat room was open to everyone

 

[n00bPimp]

Its true that girls like guys who are socially healthy. And persistance is part of being a DJ. If you can get a female to trust you a lot she can be pretty informative, I've had girls confess to me they dont mind being treated like crap once in a while.

 

[Aaron B]

why are you having these conversations?

what purpose do they serve?

is this progress?

 

[Zero Hero]

why are you having these conversations?

what purpose do they serve?

is this progress?

she's an online friend i talk to, dude, i said i'm not gaming her

 

[Aaron B]

she's an online friend i talk to, dude, i said i'm not gaming her

then what is the relevance of the conversation you posted?

do you really think thats an insight into the female mind? Do you honestly think she has any idea how her attraction works?

 

[WC2]

then what is the relevance of the conversation you posted?

do you really think thats an insight into the female mind? Do you honestly think she has any idea how her attraction works?

Not at all.. few of them do