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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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dj ben the original post was made by syson or whatever BEFORE david deangelo's book ever came out. Alot of people think that this guy IS david deangelo, back when he was learnin his game.dj ben2 said:
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sisonpyh IS David DeAngelo, they are one and the same person.
His REAL name is Eben Pagan (yeah I know, odd name). He was a former Ross Jeffries student, then he ditched NLP for "****y funny" as his technique of choice.
And he posted at ASF and Cliff's List under the nickname sisonpyh, and LATER called himself David DeAngelo. He's probably used a host of other aliases too, considering "Eben" isn't really a "cool" name with the ladies....
You my friend are quoting advice that is VERY OLD, since the guy wrote is under his old alias sisonpyh. DeAngelo's stuff was great for its TIME but now it's WAY outdated.
I hear he STILL believes in asking chicks for their email and THEN emailing them to ask for a number! Even Ross Jeffries wasn't this tedious with his method! DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating" book may help get a few more dates but it does NOT go all the way. It's more of a beginner's book for SUPER WUSSY NICE GUYS. I still have trouble believing this guy ACTUALLY got laid with attractive women, sure ****y-funny works, but at some point you need to stop busting on her and START drawing her IN. I think when guys like DeAngelo are in the Attraction stage they CAN be rockstars for a while, BUT once they get to the Rapport stage they suddenly get very quiet and let the woman lead the interaction which is BAD.
Once you know how NOT to suck up to women and give away your power, DYD becomes pretty much irrelevant. It's too complicated and has not enough attitude changes in it. Too "structured" and yet way too vague at the same time! If he taught simple, CONCISE inner game (not all that complicated self-hypnosis BS that he throws into his set of a bazillion DVDs that nobody has time to watch!) then his book might be better.
You'll learn way more from the DJ Bible than from DeAngelo. I certainly did.
His REAL name is Eben Pagan (yeah I know, odd name). He was a former Ross Jeffries student, then he ditched NLP for "****y funny" as his technique of choice.
And he posted at ASF and Cliff's List under the nickname sisonpyh, and LATER called himself David DeAngelo. He's probably used a host of other aliases too, considering "Eben" isn't really a "cool" name with the ladies....
You my friend are quoting advice that is VERY OLD, since the guy wrote is under his old alias sisonpyh. DeAngelo's stuff was great for its TIME but now it's WAY outdated.
I hear he STILL believes in asking chicks for their email and THEN emailing them to ask for a number! Even Ross Jeffries wasn't this tedious with his method! DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating" book may help get a few more dates but it does NOT go all the way. It's more of a beginner's book for SUPER WUSSY NICE GUYS. I still have trouble believing this guy ACTUALLY got laid with attractive women, sure ****y-funny works, but at some point you need to stop busting on her and START drawing her IN. I think when guys like DeAngelo are in the Attraction stage they CAN be rockstars for a while, BUT once they get to the Rapport stage they suddenly get very quiet and let the woman lead the interaction which is BAD.
Once you know how NOT to suck up to women and give away your power, DYD becomes pretty much irrelevant. It's too complicated and has not enough attitude changes in it. Too "structured" and yet way too vague at the same time! If he taught simple, CONCISE inner game (not all that complicated self-hypnosis BS that he throws into his set of a bazillion DVDs that nobody has time to watch!) then his book might be better.
You'll learn way more from the DJ Bible than from DeAngelo. I certainly did.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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superstar said:Way to bump a 3 year old thread
Atleast he posted useful information relative to the original post.
Either way, I'm glad you just bumped this. First time I've seen this... and some really good info in it.
