"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VERY Flirtatious Girls

illmatic1005

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What do you do with girls who like to flirt a lot?
I know this girl and she's been flirting with me to the extreme. I read some of Pook's stuff and was like, man this stuff really works...

BUT

i found out she flirts with EVERY guy and says the same stuff to them.. just the other day she was like i wanna hook up with u soo bad i wish it was saturday now blah blah blah...and my friend told me she said the exact same stuff to him too..i mean to the exact..

Is this a stupid shyt test or something and is shes just trying to see who'll pass it or whatever?

What should i do? shes a cool, fun girl and all but am i just being played?

how can i still get with her without being played? I dont wanna be played but i just wanna have some fun with her..no long term or whatever
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Omen

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here's what I do, and I'm posting this from my phone before I go flirt with girls at work. when I walk in that door ill choose my target (this one girl) and then flirt. shell flirt back then I back off. I see her talking to other guys but not as much as me. if she does, I flirt with one of the other girls. I play her own game. that's what u have to do. if I sense too much ill make more moves or bag her. since I know she talks to me more I don't worry. if I were u I'd start flirting with other ones
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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dotcomwill said:
I would flirt right back, play the same game shes playing, find out who her friends are, and flirt with them :)
Works for me! :up:
 

Charm&Style

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and if her moms a milf hit on her too, then tell the chick "why cant you be like your mom"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You have taken on the female role and she the male role! Ask her out and if she says "no" then hang up! You are playing into her hands! Why?
 

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Because the roles have switched as I've seen it nowadays. (in majority terms...)

Women are now the "men", Men are now the "women", or so it seems.

That's what living in a feministic society does to you!.. To us all!
 
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