"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VERY Flirtatious Girls

illmatic1005

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What do you do with girls who like to flirt a lot?
I know this girl and she's been flirting with me to the extreme. I read some of Pook's stuff and was like, man this stuff really works...

BUT

i found out she flirts with EVERY guy and says the same stuff to them.. just the other day she was like i wanna hook up with u soo bad i wish it was saturday now blah blah blah...and my friend told me she said the exact same stuff to him too..i mean to the exact..

Is this a stupid shyt test or something and is shes just trying to see who'll pass it or whatever?

What should i do? shes a cool, fun girl and all but am i just being played?

how can i still get with her without being played? I dont wanna be played but i just wanna have some fun with her..no long term or whatever
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Omen

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here's what I do, and I'm posting this from my phone before I go flirt with girls at work. when I walk in that door ill choose my target (this one girl) and then flirt. shell flirt back then I back off. I see her talking to other guys but not as much as me. if she does, I flirt with one of the other girls. I play her own game. that's what u have to do. if I sense too much ill make more moves or bag her. since I know she talks to me more I don't worry. if I were u I'd start flirting with other ones
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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dotcomwill said:
I would flirt right back, play the same game shes playing, find out who her friends are, and flirt with them :)
Works for me! :up:
 

Charm&Style

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and if her moms a milf hit on her too, then tell the chick "why cant you be like your mom"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have taken on the female role and she the male role! Ask her out and if she says "no" then hang up! You are playing into her hands! Why?
 

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Because the roles have switched as I've seen it nowadays. (in majority terms...)

Women are now the "men", Men are now the "women", or so it seems.

That's what living in a feministic society does to you!.. To us all!
 
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