"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Very direct opener/# close?

HandyAndy

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What do you think of going up to a girl who has shown interest, like eye contact and stuff, give her you phone, smile and say

"put your number in here"

what if she rejects?

I wanted to try this today, but I still havnt gotten the...idk, balls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aragon034

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I can see it working.

I wouldn't say "Put your Number in here" just like that though, something like "I'm quite busy at the moment, and the chances of running into you again nil. So put your number in here and we'll have a round 2 soon."

i would only ever do that if the IOI's are big and obvious.

I'm gonna have to try this soon. i've already got a few HBs in mind.

I'm thinking that you'd have to look pretty high value at teh time as well. increase chances of success.
 

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I don't see why not. I've seen crazier things work.
 
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