"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Very direct opener/# close?

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HandyAndy

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What do you think of going up to a girl who has shown interest, like eye contact and stuff, give her you phone, smile and say

"put your number in here"

what if she rejects?

I wanted to try this today, but I still havnt gotten the...idk, balls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can see it working.

I wouldn't say "Put your Number in here" just like that though, something like "I'm quite busy at the moment, and the chances of running into you again nil. So put your number in here and we'll have a round 2 soon."

i would only ever do that if the IOI's are big and obvious.

I'm gonna have to try this soon. i've already got a few HBs in mind.

I'm thinking that you'd have to look pretty high value at teh time as well. increase chances of success.
 
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I don't see why not. I've seen crazier things work.
 
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