"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Very direct opener/# close?

HandyAndy

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What do you think of going up to a girl who has shown interest, like eye contact and stuff, give her you phone, smile and say

"put your number in here"

what if she rejects?

I wanted to try this today, but I still havnt gotten the...idk, balls?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aragon034

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I can see it working.

I wouldn't say "Put your Number in here" just like that though, something like "I'm quite busy at the moment, and the chances of running into you again nil. So put your number in here and we'll have a round 2 soon."

i would only ever do that if the IOI's are big and obvious.

I'm gonna have to try this soon. i've already got a few HBs in mind.

I'm thinking that you'd have to look pretty high value at teh time as well. increase chances of success.
 

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I don't see why not. I've seen crazier things work.
 
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