"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Very Confusing Situation going on here. A Gamble.

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Hey everyone, I'll just cut to the chase here to make things shorter and quicker. Well My girlfriend and I been together for 5 months now, things been great till the 4th month and the 5th month got alot worser. She gets mad easily, and when she gets mad she will ignore me or pretend I'm a stranger to her when we pass by each other in the hall. I try to be civilized with her, and she goes "uhhuh" "sure" whatever" ya know the drill. The good thing about her is that, she is a sharing person as in food, money, & music. And is willing to get really kinky (But still didn't get laid yet).

Well, I started kinda Djin this other girl now, I'm not trying to get too comfortable with her yet. Since I'm still with my girlfriend, and this girls knows I have a girlfriend as well. The thing is, if I break up with my girlfriend, and somehow this girl backfires and doesn't like me I lose two girls. But, me getting too comfortable with this girl, while I have a girlfriend will make me look like a player. And if I dont get too comfortable or flirt with her, then I wont get her for sure. What do you guys suggest me to do? I'm kinda in the middle right here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your girlfriend reeks of a bad attitude. If you cant do anything to truly get the power back in the relationship, dump her before things get any worse. Then, date several girls simultaniously and dont hide the fact that you're doing it.
 
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Yeha man your girl sounds like she has lost total interest in you, (she mightnt have coz we dont know everything) if u still want your gf i suggest that u just go up to her and do something nice, i dunno how far u are in your relationship but i say u should maybe just go up to her one time and just give her a quick kiss on the cheek (like when walking past her) so she knows there is still attraction, but then walk off so she gets a little confused why u didnt talk to her or anything

and if things are looking for the worse take the other girl (who cares if u look like a player)
 
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No offense man, but if you don't break up with your gf, she's gonna break up with you. Doesn't even seem like she's having fun with you anymore? It's over man, accept it.

Dump her and get with the new girl.
 
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