"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Very Confusing Situation going on here. A Gamble.

aznxboi

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Hey everyone, I'll just cut to the chase here to make things shorter and quicker. Well My girlfriend and I been together for 5 months now, things been great till the 4th month and the 5th month got alot worser. She gets mad easily, and when she gets mad she will ignore me or pretend I'm a stranger to her when we pass by each other in the hall. I try to be civilized with her, and she goes "uhhuh" "sure" whatever" ya know the drill. The good thing about her is that, she is a sharing person as in food, money, & music. And is willing to get really kinky (But still didn't get laid yet).

Well, I started kinda Djin this other girl now, I'm not trying to get too comfortable with her yet. Since I'm still with my girlfriend, and this girls knows I have a girlfriend as well. The thing is, if I break up with my girlfriend, and somehow this girl backfires and doesn't like me I lose two girls. But, me getting too comfortable with this girl, while I have a girlfriend will make me look like a player. And if I dont get too comfortable or flirt with her, then I wont get her for sure. What do you guys suggest me to do? I'm kinda in the middle right here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michael Chief

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Your girlfriend reeks of a bad attitude. If you cant do anything to truly get the power back in the relationship, dump her before things get any worse. Then, date several girls simultaniously and dont hide the fact that you're doing it.
 

Matty838

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Yeha man your girl sounds like she has lost total interest in you, (she mightnt have coz we dont know everything) if u still want your gf i suggest that u just go up to her and do something nice, i dunno how far u are in your relationship but i say u should maybe just go up to her one time and just give her a quick kiss on the cheek (like when walking past her) so she knows there is still attraction, but then walk off so she gets a little confused why u didnt talk to her or anything

and if things are looking for the worse take the other girl (who cares if u look like a player)
 

StrangeButTrue

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No offense man, but if you don't break up with your gf, she's gonna break up with you. Doesn't even seem like she's having fun with you anymore? It's over man, accept it.

Dump her and get with the new girl.
 
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