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I have read some material that has really interested me. Some of the techniques I would like to employ in my own game to do similar things. For instance I was reading the Pheromone Kid System. He uses a very indirect way of baiting a girl to show her true colors. In other word to see if she is interested in him. It's about gauging her reaction to the question. He uses this line "I am feeling a littel pent up today do you know where a adult video store is". I feel this is a great way to without having to show your interest yet see where her head is at. Keep in mind he looks for IOI's and other things like how she dresses and carries herself beforehand as well.

So I feel this is just too uncalibrated for a certain situations like a mall for instance with bystanders that could trigger the girl anti slut defense mechanism. Or maybe not but I just want to make the system less risky because that doesn't appeal to everyone.

Just trying to develop a scaled down less risky version (To find out if she's interested). Pheromone Kid is trying to have sex with them in the bathroom. I am not. I am just not into showing my interest at this moment. But would like to in a low risk way find out where her head is at.

Again another example is "Do you have a boyfriend". But not a good one because any girl would assume you are interested. And I do not want to show my interest directly that is. Indirectly is fine though as the above example does very well just to forwardly.

Unfortunately I am just not creative enough to think up something less risky at the moment. I was hoping some of you guys could help me out.

Thank you!
 
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I know what you're talking about. I also know that this rabbit hole is DEEP. I do not know the specific material you've been reading.

I know how to do this to a great extent, but I have no idea how to convey that information to a stranger. Remembering specific lines will always be inferior to learning the basic principles such lines come from.

Whether it's risky or not is a case by case assessment by itself, this requires you already knowing the basic principles at play. You can say some pretty out of the ordinary stuff given the right context, which would make you look like a total creep in the wrong context. You could even bang in a bathroom, but you have to know the principles before that's even a possibility.

Another point is that it's silly to hide your interest, it's not about hiding it at all. It's all about how you're showing it. They'll know immediately that you're interested anyways, what matters to the outcome is how you play it. It may seem to you that the guys who get it are being indirect, but they're not, they're just more refined in expressing their desire.

There's no such thing as low risk, you should embrace the risks and feel excitement over not knowing what happens next, that's the fun of the game. You're going about it with the wrong mindset, you should have the balls to experiment.
 

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Really nice there are responses to my post but so far they have nothing do with the question I asked and are kind making assumptions.
 
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That would come off as creepy 99.9% of the time in real life.
Well I would argue that all of pick up material is creepy if the girl is not interested in the man using the technique. I don't know what alternate universe you live in but in real life some women think men talking them that they don't know in the daytime is creepy period no matter what they say or who they are. Nobody bats 100 or really anywhere close. However if the man has enough experience in detecting and forcing IOI's out of a girl to indicate some level of interest and gauged the womans personality beforehand than there is a better chance at coming out with a favorable response. Especially if he is just being very low risk about it.
 
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Really nice there are responses to my post but so far they have nothing do with the question I asked and are kind making assumptions.
  1. You suck at asking questions, there are no questions in your post.
  2. A verbal litmus test doesn't exist.
  3. Stop being a pvssy trying to play everything safe.
 

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I have a friend who always uses sexual context in conversations with everyone. It’s always you sck this, you fck that, etc. i wouldn’t even be able to explain. He is a mafia member, what you’d call a natural alpha male. He get’s women who like bad boys. But my point, I could not use his style, only to some limited extent when I’m drunk with people I know. On strangers? I don’t have it in me. I don’t live that life style.

Give me the material you reading please.
 

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But would like to in a low risk way find out where her head is at.

Tell a story about a friend who did what you want to do, and see her response.

"You remind of my ex roomates girlfriend, don't know why. He walked right up to her and started talking about sex, pretty bold. I could never do that."

Something LIKE THIS (not these exact words, choose your own based on your own personality, experience etc) would bring up the topic but have it be about somebody else. How she reacts to the story will tell you a lot, but you've got to be paying attention.

You can be flexible, and make up similar stories of friends or friends of friends based on the situation.
 

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Tell a story about a friend who did what you want to do, and see
Last year, or so, I had this girl do that to me. She told me a story about taxi driver telling her about canulingus and sht. And thing is I do not lick pssy, it’s for fags. Plus her vagina is disgusting, I had white sht on my condom. Pls she can’s sck dck. Anyway I was drunk on new years, called her, and like drunks do, told her hard core red pill. She chose to NC, but was willing to meet after a year+.
 

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I have read some material that has really interested me. Some of the techniques I would like to employ in my own game to do similar things. For instance I was reading the Pheromone Kid System. He uses a very indirect way of baiting a girl to show her true colors. In other word to see if she is interested in him. It's about gauging her reaction to the question. He uses this line "I am feeling a littel pent up today do you know where a adult video store is". I feel this is a great way to without having to show your interest yet see where her head is at. Keep in mind he looks for IOI's and other things like how she dresses and carries herself beforehand as well.

So I feel this is just too uncalibrated for a certain situations like a mall for instance with bystanders that could trigger the girl anti slut defense mechanism. Or maybe not but I just want to make the system less risky because that doesn't appeal to everyone.

Just trying to develop a scaled down less risky version (To find out if she's interested). Pheromone Kid is trying to have sex with them in the bathroom. I am not. I am just not into showing my interest at this moment. But would like to in a low risk way find out where her head is at.

Again another example is "Do you have a boyfriend". But not a good one because any girl would assume you are interested. And I do not want to show my interest directly that is. Indirectly is fine though as the above example does very well just to forwardly.

Unfortunately I am just not creative enough to think up something less risky at the moment. I was hoping some of you guys could help me out.

Thank you!
Make up a defensible statement/story and make sure it doesn't sound serious and can fit into the context.

If you're talking about jobs jokingly suggest she become a stripper (like Cardi B) or a porn star (like Kim K), gauge her reaction. If she gets mad at you, shrug and point out the celebrity comparisons (and especially if she's blue/left wing/cares about being PC, it would be against her politics to say anything bad about sex work)

If you're gonna talk about her looks, tell her you wanna see her on the cover of playboy or something, gauge reaction (another well paying place to find A-list celebrities, at least in the past it was)

Make perverted sex jokes that are funny ocassionally when you get the right chance

Ask her pervy sex questions while getting to know her and asking questions about her (slowly ramp up from being tame and space it out.

Make sure to have normal questions and also wacky ridiculous questions to set the proper tone "what's your height? What are the 3 numbers on the back of your credit card? Haha damn, fine. Is the lingerie you're wearing under that outfit hot pink and matching?" )
 

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  1. You suck at asking questions, there are no questions in your post.
  2. A verbal litmus test doesn't exist.
  3. Stop being a pvssy trying to play everything safe.
1. I asked the quesiton like you were 5.

2. This is a Litmus Test (As was in the original post):
"I am feeling a little pent up today do you know where a adult video store is"

3. Well you don't seem very smart so I don't think I will take any advice from you.
 

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1. I asked the quesiton like you were 5
There was in fact not a single question mark in your first post.

2. This is a Litmus Test (As was in the original post):
"I am feeling a little pent up today do you know where a adult video store is"
Well, if that's what you wanted then you already answered yourself. I have to say though that your line is very cringe worthy. I'd say it's better to just say "wanna fvck?", somehow you manage to take the awkwardness to the next level.

3. Well you don't seem very smart so I don't think I will take any advice from you.
Sure, whatever, I'm not paid to do this. You're also very wrong about my intelligence, but I don't suppose there's any chance you'll agree on that.
 

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There was in fact not a single question mark in your first post.


Well, if that's what you wanted then you already answered yourself. I have to say though that your line is very cringe worthy. I'd say it's better to just say "wanna fvck?", somehow you manage to take the awkwardness to the next level.


Sure, whatever, I'm not paid to do this. You're also very wrong about my intelligence, but I don't suppose there's any chance you'll agree on that.
Well I won't try explaining to you again. You either don't like hearing you are wrong are just too stupid to understand.
 
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