"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OldNumb3r7

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So I got to talking with the new bartender at work. We talk for a few weeks while working, go out on night she gives me her number. Flirting at work, kino, touching me while talking, compliments. So we decided to go out one night, she said she wanted to watch this movie with me. Even better I think. So I agree to that on saturday. Last night we are supposed to go watch the movie together. She calls me around 5 all happy and saying how shes excited etc. Im in a good mood. "Huzzuh!" I said to myself. Shes showing interest. Calling me 1st to confirm!I told her Id call her when I got off work around 9. So I do. No answer. I leave a message. Figuring she might be getting ready etc. I wait an hour. Try once more, no message. Then go out with other friends. No phone call! NOTHING!

So today I get a text. "Im SO sorry about last night. I got sick and went to sleep around 8 and didnt wake up" *gag* So I reply "You sounded fine at 5, I get the point"......she replies "U ass =( " what the hell?.........
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"And you didn't call to tell me this?? You're going to have to do something DAMNED good for me to make up for THIS one. :D"
 

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If she counteroffers your still good. If she plays it like you have yellow fever and is avoiding you, then next her.
 
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