“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Venom Chronicles: Introduction

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Greetings, Simps :lol:.

I'll be creating a series of threads as it pertains to my experiences (knowledge, wisdom, insights) in the dating game and dealing with women.

These will include real life narrations of current stuff I've been dealing with, along with covering certain topics and concepts within the manosphere.

These threads will be titled "Venom Chronicles"

Topics will range from my..

1. Cold Approach journeys.

2. My Mode One mentality.

3. My pitfalls and shortcomings.

4. General Jive.

I'll make these posts as entertaining and intriguing as possible.

I decided to do this because..

1. There are indeed levels to the game, and I firmly believe that my philosophy on dating and men/women relations (and my actions behind it) is on an extremely high level.

I operate on high frequencies when it comes to my words, actions, and mentality...and it makes me feel damn good being there.

That said, I rather enjoy the task of helping men reach those levels.

I also decided to do this because..

2. I also enjoy entertaining folks. I've been complimented on my gift of storytelling...so, even if you don't learn anything, you can at least be entertained. :cool:

And lastly, I decided to do this because..

3. This is therapeutic for me. As a lone wolf, I don't have any male friends..and since the manosphere is an important part of my life (women in general), it's nice to have a platform where I can share/spread game and articulate my thoughts.

So, shout out to the creator(s) of the forum for providing such a platform, and all the forum members for keeping it lit.
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That all said, just wanted to make this introduction post everyone knows what to expect (if you even give a damn).

First thread coming up shortly...
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I'm actually listening to one of Alan Roger Currie's lectures right now.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah I saw that. That's sad news.

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I have a question about mode one that I think will benefit others here. Have you ever succeeded in a mode one approach that you came at it from a relationship angle as opposed to a sexual one? I'm thinking about doing a modified mode one for day game.
 

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I have a question about mode one that I think will benefit others here. Have you ever succeeded in a mode one approach that you came at it from a relationship angle as opposed to a sexual one?
Nah, when I was introduced to Mode One, I was well past the relationship stage (in my life).

Now, strictly sexual.

I'm thinking about doing a modified mode one for day game.
Care to share your modified mode one approach with us?

I also did a modified mode one approach (Mode X).

The only difference between mines and his, is mine doesn't place much emphasis on the verbal aspect of effectively communicating your sexual desires..unlike his.

In fact, I recall ARC stating that if you aren't verbally communicating your sexual desires with a woman, then you aren't being Mode One...as he believes that seduction begins with your voice.

My Mode X version allows me to be direct, straightforward, and bold via text messaging...and also with my physical actions!!
 

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Care to share your modified mode one approach with us?
Here's my idea that I want to experiment and possibly practice: I want to be clear and blunt about the relationship part (for those girls that I think would look good under my arm) and be implicit with the sexual tension part; communicated with my body language and tone of voice. This way I can be bold and sexual, but avoid any trouble that I might get doing this in the day time.
 

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Why not just make an instagram or tiktok? MIght resonate more with a larger audience, + will be even more effective here.

This post kinda reminds me of the mindset I had when I started coaching a while back. There's nothing like it.. you should get into coaching if you feel you're at a super high level of social dynamics/dating.. It's very fulfilling. I only stopped because I got other obligations and some of it got tiring dealing with people who just can't seem to get let go of all their own baggage they carry.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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don't know you. would you describe yourself a bit, so as to have a lens to view your stories from. are you tall, chad, ripped, green, rich.., high t or low or don't know. you know, the stuff to know what guys around me are likely your mindset.

interested to see your stories.
 

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Here's my idea that I want to experiment and possibly practice: I want to be clear and blunt about the relationship part (for those girls that I think would look good under my arm)
Are you speaking of a monogamous relationship?

and be implicit with the sexual tension part; communicated with my body language and tone of voice. This way I can be bold and sexual, but avoid any trouble that I might get doing this in the day time.
Please clarify, amigo.

In both cases, you're being clear, blunt, and explicit.

So, what is the difference?
 

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Why not just make an instagram or tiktok? MIght resonate more with a larger audience, + will be even more effective here.
I seriously thought about this...I just don't want my face in the public eye.

I am a behind the scenes kind of guy...I'd rather be the director or producer that no one knows, than the famous actor on the screen.

This post kinda reminds me of the mindset I had when I started coaching a while back. There's nothing like it.. you should get into coaching if you feel you're at a super high level of social dynamics/dating.. It's very fulfilling. I only stopped because I got other obligations and some of it got tiring dealing with people who just can't seem to get let go of all their own baggage they carry.
I bet it was fulfilling. Maybe I can get my messages across with just slide texts and voice narrations. :lol:
 

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don't know you. would you describe yourself a bit, so as to have a lens to view your stories from. are you tall, chad, ripped, green, rich.., high t or low or don't know. you know, the stuff to know what guys around me are likely your mindset.

interested to see your stories.
6'3, 315.

Hit the gym regularly..and get compliments on my physique almost on a daily basis.

Strong advocate of body game, with also the strong view that physical attraction trumps money, careers, personality, or material possessions.
 

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Are you speaking of a monogamous relationship?
Correct. On occasion I'll see a girl who looks like a long term relationship candidate.

Please clarify, amigo.

In both cases, you're being clear, blunt, and explicit.

So, what is the difference?
It's everything mode one except I'm not being sexually explicit. Maybe I'll call it mode 1.5

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Actually what I should do instead is ask her age first if that's an issue. That will be the easiest and simplest way to remove the possibility that she is not 18.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Correct. On occasion I'll see a girl who looks like a long term relationship candidate.

It's everything mode one except I'm not being sexually explicit. Maybe I'll call it mode 1.5
But doesn't sex come with the relationship?

Usually, the challenge is to get sex without the commitment of a relationship.

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Actually what I should do instead is ask her age first if that's an issue. That will be the easiest and simplest way to remove the possibility that she is not 18.
18 is legal :devil:.
 

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Correct. On occasion I'll see a girl who looks like a long term relationship candidate.

It's everything mode one except I'm not being sexually explicit. Maybe I'll call it mode 1.5
^^My ex-husband used "Relationship Mode One" on me, I recall posting about it when I was catsmeow.

He had been a "player" (for lack of a better word) prior to meeting me and when we met, he was very clear and direct about seeking a LTR leading to marriage.

I was told by a few members here after posting that although it was relationship oriented versus sexually oriented, it was still considered Mode ONE as he told me boldly and directly what he wanted.

I was quite attracted to him and experienced some **** myself prior to meeting him so "went with it."

We got married within the year and divorced the following year for whatever that's worth!

But doesn't sex come with the relationship?
Good question! For us, we didn't have sex right away however he did express his sexual interest while telling me what he wanted relationship-wise and in retrospect, I'm not sure why but I trusted him.
 

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I seriously thought about this...I just don't want my face in the public eye.

I am a behind the scenes kind of guy...I'd rather be the director or producer that no one knows, than the famous actor on the screen.



I bet it was fulfilling. Maybe I can get my messages across with just slide texts and voice narrations. :lol:
I totally feel you on not wanting your personal image out there. That's something I dealt with too with the coaching.. I didn't want people to see my face and be like "oh wow that's what he's doing now...coaching men" but I got over it pretty quickly.. plus when i advertised my services i would just use outside cities.

If you do decide to get into coaching or making a platform for yourself/your audience, I would definitely at least try to do voice.. I feel people connect more with feeling like they are speaking to a real person and hearing their voice or seeing them express themselves, even moreso now than ever before.
 

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^^My ex-husband used "Relationship Mode One" on me, I recall posting about it when I was catsmeow.

He had been a "player" (for lack of a better word) prior to meeting me and when we met, he was very clear and direct about seeking a LTR leading to marriage.

I was told by a few members here after posting that although it was relationship oriented versus sexually oriented, it was still considered Mode ONE as he told me boldly and directly what he wanted.
Yup, it was still Mode One..even though it was relationship oriented.

because, Alan Roger Currie stated on numerous occasions that his brother Steve is/was not

I was quite attracted to him and experienced some **** myself prior to meeting him so "went with it."

We got married within the year and divorced the following year for whatever that's worth!



Good question! For us, we didn't have sex right away however he did express his sexual interest while telling me what he wanted relationship-wise and in retrospect, I'm not sure why but I trusted him.
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Good question! For us, we didn't have sex right away however he did express his sexual interest while telling me what he wanted relationship-wise and in retrospect, I'm not sure why but I trusted him.
Sooo, let me get this str8, Catz..

Your man told you that he wanted a monogamous relationship with you, and he expressed that he wanted to have sex with you, within that relationship.

Wowww, dude got the game all figured out!!

His brain needs to be studied by science, because who'd have ever thought of the idea of telling a woman that you want to have sex with her, if you're in a relationship with her.

Bravo, I tell you.

Bravo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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