"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Vegas is too easy to pickup Girls at the Clubs?

SofaKingGood

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I have always read this site but never joined. This is my first ever post cause I really want to share my experience about something that struck me, then ask a question about it.
Right after college about 5 years ago I moved to South Beach. I started going clubbing like 2-3 times a week in South Beach. I couldn't pick up any girls at the clubs; no number closes, kisses, or even hugs. Then I started reading the bible and forums/threads on this site. Started to work out at the gym cause I was super skinny at the time. Plus, I got some new clothes to fit my bigger muscular body. Then I practice my game from what I've learned from these forums/threads and bible for a couple of years at clubs around South Beach. For the last 3 years when I was clubbing in South Beach at least 15 nights a month I have gotten number closes 80% of the time, make out sessions 30% of the time, and taking a girl back to my condo to have sex about 13% of the time in a month when you average me going out about 15 nights a month.
Now I have been living in Vegas for about a year pretty much right on the strip, and for some strange reason those average percentage have gone way up. I club out here about the same amount that I was doing when I lived in South Beach {15 nights a month}. I don't think my game have improved and I haven't gotten any better looking, but now I get number closes 99% of the time, make out sessions 90% of the time, and taking a girl back to my place or their hotel room to have sex about 45% of the time. Plus, other people have told me that Vegas is way easier than where they lived before.
So my question is that for people(men) who live or visited Vegas and go clubbing, was it easier in your town to hookup with girls at the club or in Vegas?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Duffdog

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When I went there-- non-local girls at clubs were so easy it was stupid. In fact, they were approaching me like crazy. This was in Rain, but it was a couple years ago. I'm sure its not that different now.
 

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Thank the marketer who came up with the "what happens in vegas..." slogan. It has made the girls who come to Vegas to party adopt that mindset. Enjoy your time there and get what you can out of it. Outside whatever ease of getting laid, Vegas is a hellhole and incredibly bleak city.
 

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Every region in this country chicks are different (what works in Cali might not work in Kentucky for gaming i.e. peacocking, your type of approach etc etc, due to the reigional differences). The bigger the market typically is the more types of chicks you have who are "hip" to game, I know for a fact in my state, the city girls are harder to game compared to girls who don't live in the city typicaly. Outside the city is ridilcously easy. Why? because if you live outside the city, there ain't sh*t to do. So you got guys running around in the boonies with 6 different chicks
 

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In Vegas i met and hooked up with a ton of girls. Being Australian with an Australian accent was a real help

Almost all the girls i hooked up with, i met around the casinos, not in the clubs. It is so easy to talk to girls just out and about in Vegas, anywhere. Everyone is in a party mood so girls are easier to approach.

I did incredibly well with what i call the 'photo opp' opener. In Vegas, girls especially love to take photos of themselves. They are in their groups and all dressed up looking hot and they want photos to put on their facebook etc. When you see a girl taking photos of her girlfriends, use the opportunity to step in there and offer to take a photo of them all together. Worked incredibly well for me. In other cities, this scenario may arise once a month, in vegas, trust me it would 6-8 times a night.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Peterpack said:
I did incredibly well with what i call the 'photo opp' opener. In Vegas, girls especially love to take photos of themselves. They are in their groups and all dressed up looking hot and they want photos to put on their facebook etc. When you see a girl taking photos of her girlfriends, use the opportunity to step in there and offer to take a photo of them all together. Worked incredibly well for me. In other cities, this scenario may arise once a month, in vegas, trust me it would 6-8 times a night.
If nothing else you could just run away with her $300 camera. :crazy:
 

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So if your game is not good in the club in your city just come to Vegas, and if it's still not working you need to work on your game.
 

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It's real easy, too bad they are mostly hookers that you won't find out about til you get them to your hotel room...
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Many of the girls there are on holiday letting their hair down and looking to lose their inhibitions a little bit.

Girls on holiday = promiscuous sluts.
 

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BackInTheGame78 said:
It's real easy, too bad they are mostly hookers that you won't find out about til you get them to your hotel room...
There are a lot of hookers around, but I've gotten pretty good at identifying them ASAP so as not to waste my time. I could do a whole thread on "How to tell if the Vegas girl is a prostie or a real girl" but it would take a while lol.
 
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