"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Valuing Time

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I actually did this post a long time ago, but forgot about it or something, thought i might as well post it now.



Ok, last week or so I have been doing the ‘Becoming A King’ method, if you’re not familiar with this look up Disciple’s posts, he’s the man!

Anyhow, I have become a more open, nicer human being, yes, ‘nice’. And it’s by no means my intention of being a ‘nicer’ guy, not at all, all DJ’s know why so. But I’m sorry; it’s just the side effect of being successful! But I can tell you my concept of how I get away of being nice & still get tremendous respect. Not a little, not a lot, tremendous. It’s valuing my ‘time’.

I value my time more than money, remember, not everyone has money, but everyone has time, it is my number one priority. That means I spend my time with whom I want to be with, I spend my time doing what I want, & anything that dose not pass this agenda is rid of in my life ‘immediately’.

Get rid of all the bullsh*t.

After reading ‘Becoming A King’, I have cut all bullsh*t from my life, which means friends (in my case a lot of them), any winging & whining friends have to be cut off (winging & whining is a female trait & should only be tolerated in females), & don’t waste any time sympathising over them or ‘helping’ them (trust me, trying to help them wont work, they will be convinced that what mummy said is best, they will through your DJ wisdom back in your face by interrupting you & saying, “That’s not how you treat a lady”, or, “No, looks are everything”, or, “Women like nice guys”, BIG WASTE OF TIME).
Also I have attempted to cut all bullsh*t within my character as well, from getting up out of bed at 6a.m., to having a fitness regime, improving my diet, etc. etc.

Yes I am nice, but willing to sidestep all bullsh*t for my greater good.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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