"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Valuing Time

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I actually did this post a long time ago, but forgot about it or something, thought i might as well post it now.



Ok, last week or so I have been doing the ‘Becoming A King’ method, if you’re not familiar with this look up Disciple’s posts, he’s the man!

Anyhow, I have become a more open, nicer human being, yes, ‘nice’. And it’s by no means my intention of being a ‘nicer’ guy, not at all, all DJ’s know why so. But I’m sorry; it’s just the side effect of being successful! But I can tell you my concept of how I get away of being nice & still get tremendous respect. Not a little, not a lot, tremendous. It’s valuing my ‘time’.

I value my time more than money, remember, not everyone has money, but everyone has time, it is my number one priority. That means I spend my time with whom I want to be with, I spend my time doing what I want, & anything that dose not pass this agenda is rid of in my life ‘immediately’.

Get rid of all the bullsh*t.

After reading ‘Becoming A King’, I have cut all bullsh*t from my life, which means friends (in my case a lot of them), any winging & whining friends have to be cut off (winging & whining is a female trait & should only be tolerated in females), & don’t waste any time sympathising over them or ‘helping’ them (trust me, trying to help them wont work, they will be convinced that what mummy said is best, they will through your DJ wisdom back in your face by interrupting you & saying, “That’s not how you treat a lady”, or, “No, looks are everything”, or, “Women like nice guys”, BIG WASTE OF TIME).
Also I have attempted to cut all bullsh*t within my character as well, from getting up out of bed at 6a.m., to having a fitness regime, improving my diet, etc. etc.

Yes I am nice, but willing to sidestep all bullsh*t for my greater good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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