"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Value....

ItsOnNow

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So,what exactly is it,and how does it work? I have a brief concept of it,but I don't know If I have any,or how to get it? How does it relate to looks,talents,alphaness,if it does. I just always feel negative.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ItsOnNow said:
So,what exactly is it,and how does it work? I have a brief concept of it,but I don't know If I have any,or how to get it? How does it relate to looks,talents,alphaness,if it does. I just always feel negative.
value is what makes you indifferent (in a positive way) from the rest of population.
 
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It has a range of meaning, but this is one of them..

val·ue /ˈvælyu/

8. import or meaning; force; significance:
9. liking or affection; favorable regard.

Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.

Intrinsic value means the value you have as a person - as a man - and another form of value is what you bring to others.

Regarding women - what are you doing, as a man, to adhere to your genetic masculine qualities? This is the value that women seek!!
 

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Value in terms of pickup is anything that improves another person's Survival and Replication.

Good emotions happen to be slotted in High Value because people who usually can improve people's S&R value tend to give good emotions. (Which is why pickup works)

Tyler's Famous Quote "In any social interaction there is one person reacting more to the other than that person is reacting to them"

Basically stating if the person is reacting to you more than your reacting to them, then you are high value in that situation. (Reacting doesn't mean to be unresponsive)

It goes deeper but thats the gist of it.
 
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