"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Value....

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So,what exactly is it,and how does it work? I have a brief concept of it,but I don't know If I have any,or how to get it? How does it relate to looks,talents,alphaness,if it does. I just always feel negative.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ItsOnNow said:
So,what exactly is it,and how does it work? I have a brief concept of it,but I don't know If I have any,or how to get it? How does it relate to looks,talents,alphaness,if it does. I just always feel negative.
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value is what makes you indifferent (in a positive way) from the rest of population.
 
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It has a range of meaning, but this is one of them..

val·ue /ˈvælyu/

8. import or meaning; force; significance:
9. liking or affection; favorable regard.

Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.

Intrinsic value means the value you have as a person - as a man - and another form of value is what you bring to others.

Regarding women - what are you doing, as a man, to adhere to your genetic masculine qualities? This is the value that women seek!!
 
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Value in terms of pickup is anything that improves another person's Survival and Replication.

Good emotions happen to be slotted in High Value because people who usually can improve people's S&R value tend to give good emotions. (Which is why pickup works)

Tyler's Famous Quote "In any social interaction there is one person reacting more to the other than that person is reacting to them"

Basically stating if the person is reacting to you more than your reacting to them, then you are high value in that situation. (Reacting doesn't mean to be unresponsive)

It goes deeper but thats the gist of it.
 
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