"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Value/phone scenerio?

domino

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I have noticed that there are times when I call a girl and she is either at a party or really bizzy and attempts to cut the conversation does this drop my value in anyway? If I end the call before she does by saying I gotta go first is my value still effected?

Is value lowered even if she attempts to talk for a bit despite the distractions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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crossboss

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I don't know for sure...

But, yeah, you should end a convo first if you can but not overly. You can also be a challenge outside of it...such as not being too available when she wants to 'hang out', you are a busy man, and have a lot of females on hand.
 

domino

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I called this girl back who so far has anwsered every phone call I made to her even if there are days that I call her twice (today) when I called her I was bizzy when I called her later she was bizzy unfortunetly she was at a party and was being distracted. As soon as she anwsered I began instantly throwing in open loops and a quick story but her attention was obviously in the party she was at , so I noticed her attempting to end the convo but I instead said "ive gotta go inside this place" (unknown place) give me a call tommaro THE END
 
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