"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Value/phone scenerio?

domino

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I have noticed that there are times when I call a girl and she is either at a party or really bizzy and attempts to cut the conversation does this drop my value in anyway? If I end the call before she does by saying I gotta go first is my value still effected?

Is value lowered even if she attempts to talk for a bit despite the distractions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crossboss

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I don't know for sure...

But, yeah, you should end a convo first if you can but not overly. You can also be a challenge outside of it...such as not being too available when she wants to 'hang out', you are a busy man, and have a lot of females on hand.
 

domino

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I called this girl back who so far has anwsered every phone call I made to her even if there are days that I call her twice (today) when I called her I was bizzy when I called her later she was bizzy unfortunetly she was at a party and was being distracted. As soon as she anwsered I began instantly throwing in open loops and a quick story but her attention was obviously in the party she was at , so I noticed her attempting to end the convo but I instead said "ive gotta go inside this place" (unknown place) give me a call tommaro THE END
 
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