"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Valentines

Thread starter Rainman4707
Start date Feb 7, 2016

Rainman4707

Master Don Juan

Feb 7, 2016

Got her a box of chocolates from thorntons & a card from the poundshop last year.
I'm going out with the lads Saturday night drinking beer. I'll probs get her a box of chocolates & some flowers. She has bought her own card for me to give to her (she wasn't impressed with my efforts for her card last year

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What you guys doing for your GF's this year?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.