Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Valentines - do you make arrangements for plates?

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Had a few offers and hints, I’m not really a Valentine’s Day kind of guy any more. Mainly because I have somehow dodged having a gf on Valentine’s Day for about 3 years now.

Can I just book a hotel and go eat with then ravage a chick?

Stay home and chill as it’s just a normal day with work the next day?

I hate going out of my way for non friends and family.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Had a few offers and hints, I’m not really a Valentine’s Day kind of guy any more. Mainly because I have somehow dodged having a gf on Valentine’s Day for about 3 years now.
Hot young girls were begging you to be their girlfriend on Valentine's day, yet you somehow managed to escape their love bullet?

Nice work!

Can I just boom a hotel and go eat with then ravage a chick?
Sure you can. Make sure she agrees to it though.

Stay home and chill as it’s just a normal day with work the next day?
You can do that too.

I hate going out of my way for non friends and family.
I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel I'm too rock and roll to be tied down.
 

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Hot young girls were begging you to be their girlfriend on Valentine's day, yet you somehow managed to escape their love bullet?

Nice work!



Sure you can. Make sure she agrees to it though.



You can do that too.



I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel I'm too rock and roll to be tied down.
I’m not even happy about being single for 3 V days, I’d actually prefer taking a gf somewhere and doing something special.

You are just in a bad point life and being bitter, you’ll pull through, lad.
 

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I’m not even happy about being single for 3 V days, I’d actually prefer taking a gf somewhere and doing something special.

You are just in a bad point life and being bitter, you’ll pull through, lad.
Take a woman out then! Enjoy the evening
 
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