"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Valentine's Day

Giantsfan88

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Anyone ever spent Valentine's Day with a chick they haven't fvcked yet? Or did and fvcked her on Valentine's Day?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FEZ

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On the last three Valentine's days I've take a girl out to a costly restaurant and on every one an alpha male stole the girl from me.

Valentine's day sucks. Fu ck Valentine's day.
 

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Hmmm, Ive not normally had a steady thing going in the month of February in my lifetime.

When I was younger, I was with my first ex during V-day and we had already been having sex prior. With my second ex, we were in the beginning dating stages...and ended up having sex in the future. And presently, the girl Im currently seeing I will be spending time with tomorrow, and we've been having sex for a while now.

Any other women in my past that Ive slept with, I havent dated in February, or it hasn't been long enough for V-day to matter. And by long enough, I mean at least having known each other a month, and been on more than a couple dates. So really, only a small percent of women in my dating life, have been around long enough, or have been significant enough for V-day to matter.
 

Giantsfan88

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Do you think it would be good to fake a rain check on V day with a girl you've just started seeing and haven't laid yet to demonstrate higher value?
 
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