"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Valentine's Day

Giantsfan88

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Anyone ever spent Valentine's Day with a chick they haven't fvcked yet? Or did and fvcked her on Valentine's Day?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FEZ

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On the last three Valentine's days I've take a girl out to a costly restaurant and on every one an alpha male stole the girl from me.

Valentine's day sucks. Fu ck Valentine's day.
 

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Hmmm, Ive not normally had a steady thing going in the month of February in my lifetime.

When I was younger, I was with my first ex during V-day and we had already been having sex prior. With my second ex, we were in the beginning dating stages...and ended up having sex in the future. And presently, the girl Im currently seeing I will be spending time with tomorrow, and we've been having sex for a while now.

Any other women in my past that Ive slept with, I havent dated in February, or it hasn't been long enough for V-day to matter. And by long enough, I mean at least having known each other a month, and been on more than a couple dates. So really, only a small percent of women in my dating life, have been around long enough, or have been significant enough for V-day to matter.
 

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Do you think it would be good to fake a rain check on V day with a girl you've just started seeing and haven't laid yet to demonstrate higher value?
 
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