"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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valentines day whats everyone doing?

gdi

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I hadn't seen an offical valentines day thread for this year so what the hell.


Anyways there are a few girls who are most likely expecting things from me. Most of these girls are either trying to get with me right now, or on the like decision line, cause i know they are intrested but i don't let them move on by constantly DJing. What do you guys suggest for this general population?

Now onto the big one this girl whos hb9 even with my confidence always seemed out of my leauge ive been just doing what i do, and we just make out whenever we hang out but shes the kind of girl who wants to be in relationship if shes going to do anything past makeing out.

Im always mean to her, but never seriose(sp) about it, so i was thinking i might do something nice. Im thinking just like inside joke that'll be sex-related she stole underwear and got caught once so somehow gonna work that in there like as a joke. Thinking edablie panties as a joke and be like careful who tell about these they're stolen goods or some other stupid thing along those lines.Then just a single rose or if i can rember the name of some flower she liked id get that but im not going to rember haha. And something she probaly thinks i forgot, in this case a mango.

No idea what im going to do for all the other girls i think seeing me and a bear hug adquate har har.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skilla_Staz

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Eh, I tend to avoid Vday. It seems as if it's EXPECTED that you do something "sweet". I enjoy being unpredictable.
 

sh4rk b1t3

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Avoid, they should just rename it to AFC day. Though pretty much the only day you can act like an AFC and still have a remote chance of getting laid.
 

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I really don't see vday as an advantage unless you were previously in a fight/argueing or an ******* to her the following week. Otherwise, I agree with Skilla Staz, I like being unpredictable. Save the rehearsed presents for xmas/bday etc...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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qweretyuiopas

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Umm im waking up at 6am to go to baking class, then I'm staying after till about 5pm helping out the chefs in the back. Then go to work till midnight then Ima go home and sleep.

Just like any other day. well actually 3 days a week its that busy

Heh actually i just thought of something funny as hell. you know when u were little and passed around those tiny valentines with cartoon characters and had those nasty little heart candies that said s hit like "i think your cool"?
I should do that for some of the chicks in my class and other classes, not because I want them, but just to have some fun. Sadly i have no attractive chicks except one in my class and she engaged. Im mostly doing for laughs for myself and possibly laughs for any lonely ass chick in the culinary department.

"oh thanks for the darkwing duck valentine qwerety" :crackup:
aww man ima be laughin my ass off that day
 

The Shocker

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Nice stats, Skilla Staz. How long you been working out?
 
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