"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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valentines day whats everyone doing?

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I hadn't seen an offical valentines day thread for this year so what the hell.


Anyways there are a few girls who are most likely expecting things from me. Most of these girls are either trying to get with me right now, or on the like decision line, cause i know they are intrested but i don't let them move on by constantly DJing. What do you guys suggest for this general population?

Now onto the big one this girl whos hb9 even with my confidence always seemed out of my leauge ive been just doing what i do, and we just make out whenever we hang out but shes the kind of girl who wants to be in relationship if shes going to do anything past makeing out.

Im always mean to her, but never seriose(sp) about it, so i was thinking i might do something nice. Im thinking just like inside joke that'll be sex-related she stole underwear and got caught once so somehow gonna work that in there like as a joke. Thinking edablie panties as a joke and be like careful who tell about these they're stolen goods or some other stupid thing along those lines.Then just a single rose or if i can rember the name of some flower she liked id get that but im not going to rember haha. And something she probaly thinks i forgot, in this case a mango.

No idea what im going to do for all the other girls i think seeing me and a bear hug adquate har har.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eh, I tend to avoid Vday. It seems as if it's EXPECTED that you do something "sweet". I enjoy being unpredictable.
 
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Avoid, they should just rename it to AFC day. Though pretty much the only day you can act like an AFC and still have a remote chance of getting laid.
 
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I really don't see vday as an advantage unless you were previously in a fight/argueing or an ******* to her the following week. Otherwise, I agree with Skilla Staz, I like being unpredictable. Save the rehearsed presents for xmas/bday etc...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Umm im waking up at 6am to go to baking class, then I'm staying after till about 5pm helping out the chefs in the back. Then go to work till midnight then Ima go home and sleep.

Just like any other day. well actually 3 days a week its that busy

Heh actually i just thought of something funny as hell. you know when u were little and passed around those tiny valentines with cartoon characters and had those nasty little heart candies that said s hit like "i think your cool"?
I should do that for some of the chicks in my class and other classes, not because I want them, but just to have some fun. Sadly i have no attractive chicks except one in my class and she engaged. Im mostly doing for laughs for myself and possibly laughs for any lonely ass chick in the culinary department.

"oh thanks for the darkwing duck valentine qwerety" :crackup:
aww man ima be laughin my ass off that day
 
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Nice stats, Skilla Staz. How long you been working out?
 
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