"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grandor

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Alot of time has passed...

Alot of time.


I'm still hooked up on this girl guys.
She read stuff i was sayin in my online diary, (how she found the url. . i dont know). But she got cut about it and sms'd me this mornin for the first time in.. forever.

and she kinda didnt get why i said it...

But anyway.
I'm still hooked up on her ! !
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wavejams007

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Dude, there is always hope, but I must side with the majority here. Move on. Unless you got the determination like Knox Overstreet out of the movie "Dead Poet's Society"
 

AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by Grandor
Alot of time has passed...

Alot of time.


I'm still hooked up on this girl guys.
She read stuff i was sayin in my online diary, (how she found the url. . i dont know). But she got cut about it and sms'd me this mornin for the first time in.. forever.

and she kinda didnt get why i said it...

But anyway.
I'm still hooked up on her ! !
what'd you write in it ?
 

Grandor

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'farkin get out of my head *name*, this is rediculous'
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by Grandor
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'farkin get out of my head *name*, this is rediculous'
So its been 2 months and you guys aren't hooked up yet ? Take the advice above, stop stalking her, and move on already
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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