"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Valentines day leaving me confused, help out

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Grandor

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Alot of time has passed...

Alot of time.


I'm still hooked up on this girl guys.
She read stuff i was sayin in my online diary, (how she found the url. . i dont know). But she got cut about it and sms'd me this mornin for the first time in.. forever.

and she kinda didnt get why i said it...

But anyway.
I'm still hooked up on her ! !
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wavejams007

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Dude, there is always hope, but I must side with the majority here. Move on. Unless you got the determination like Knox Overstreet out of the movie "Dead Poet's Society"
 
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AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by Grandor
Alot of time has passed...

Alot of time.


I'm still hooked up on this girl guys.
She read stuff i was sayin in my online diary, (how she found the url. . i dont know). But she got cut about it and sms'd me this mornin for the first time in.. forever.

and she kinda didnt get why i said it...

But anyway.
I'm still hooked up on her ! !
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what'd you write in it ?
 
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'farkin get out of my head *name*, this is rediculous'
 
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Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by Grandor
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'farkin get out of my head *name*, this is rediculous'
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So its been 2 months and you guys aren't hooked up yet ? Take the advice above, stop stalking her, and move on already
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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