"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Valentines day leaving me confused, help out

Grandor

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Alot of time has passed...

Alot of time.


I'm still hooked up on this girl guys.
She read stuff i was sayin in my online diary, (how she found the url. . i dont know). But she got cut about it and sms'd me this mornin for the first time in.. forever.

and she kinda didnt get why i said it...

But anyway.
I'm still hooked up on her ! !
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wavejams007

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Dude, there is always hope, but I must side with the majority here. Move on. Unless you got the determination like Knox Overstreet out of the movie "Dead Poet's Society"
 

AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by Grandor
Alot of time has passed...

Alot of time.


I'm still hooked up on this girl guys.
She read stuff i was sayin in my online diary, (how she found the url. . i dont know). But she got cut about it and sms'd me this mornin for the first time in.. forever.

and she kinda didnt get why i said it...

But anyway.
I'm still hooked up on her ! !
what'd you write in it ?
 

Grandor

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'farkin get out of my head *name*, this is rediculous'
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by Grandor
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'farkin get out of my head *name*, this is rediculous'
So its been 2 months and you guys aren't hooked up yet ? Take the advice above, stop stalking her, and move on already
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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