"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Valentines Day.....give me strength!

JohnnyStrabler

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I am so close to contacting that girl I have oneitis for! Or doing something incredibly stupid....help me out DJ's, I know its pathetic talking about it in a forum, but I know my friends are all tired of hearing it......

what should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JCballin88

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Go out for wings with your guy friends and forget about women for a night. That's what I'm doing.
 

f283000

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1. Take a shower.
2. Put some nice clothe on
3. Put some nice cologne on
4. Go to your local mall or hotspot where people hang out.
5. Say "hi" to a couple girls, try having a conversation
6. Get yourself some food
7. Go to the club (awesome on valentine's day)

Valentine's day is when tons of single girls are walking around in packs in malls and other hangout spots (that's how you know they're single, when they're out walking with other girls or by themselves on valentine's day). It's a great day to talk to girls.

Trust me just talking to 1 or 2 will make you feel awesome and you won't remember your oneitis.

That is what I do when i'm feeling down. I dress my best, go out, pick a good restaurant I never been before, eat some good food to reward myself and just get a good vibe going and feel good about myself. Then I approach some girls.
 

moneyisking

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is no one really going to be silent about fact that oneitis is like drinking poison?
 
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