"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Valentines Day.....give me strength!

JohnnyStrabler

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I am so close to contacting that girl I have oneitis for! Or doing something incredibly stupid....help me out DJ's, I know its pathetic talking about it in a forum, but I know my friends are all tired of hearing it......

what should I do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JCballin88

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Go out for wings with your guy friends and forget about women for a night. That's what I'm doing.
 

f283000

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1. Take a shower.
2. Put some nice clothe on
3. Put some nice cologne on
4. Go to your local mall or hotspot where people hang out.
5. Say "hi" to a couple girls, try having a conversation
6. Get yourself some food
7. Go to the club (awesome on valentine's day)

Valentine's day is when tons of single girls are walking around in packs in malls and other hangout spots (that's how you know they're single, when they're out walking with other girls or by themselves on valentine's day). It's a great day to talk to girls.

Trust me just talking to 1 or 2 will make you feel awesome and you won't remember your oneitis.

That is what I do when i'm feeling down. I dress my best, go out, pick a good restaurant I never been before, eat some good food to reward myself and just get a good vibe going and feel good about myself. Then I approach some girls.
 

moneyisking

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is no one really going to be silent about fact that oneitis is like drinking poison?
 
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