"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Valentines Day.....give me strength!

JohnnyStrabler

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I am so close to contacting that girl I have oneitis for! Or doing something incredibly stupid....help me out DJ's, I know its pathetic talking about it in a forum, but I know my friends are all tired of hearing it......

what should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JCballin88

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Go out for wings with your guy friends and forget about women for a night. That's what I'm doing.
 

f283000

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1. Take a shower.
2. Put some nice clothe on
3. Put some nice cologne on
4. Go to your local mall or hotspot where people hang out.
5. Say "hi" to a couple girls, try having a conversation
6. Get yourself some food
7. Go to the club (awesome on valentine's day)

Valentine's day is when tons of single girls are walking around in packs in malls and other hangout spots (that's how you know they're single, when they're out walking with other girls or by themselves on valentine's day). It's a great day to talk to girls.

Trust me just talking to 1 or 2 will make you feel awesome and you won't remember your oneitis.

That is what I do when i'm feeling down. I dress my best, go out, pick a good restaurant I never been before, eat some good food to reward myself and just get a good vibe going and feel good about myself. Then I approach some girls.
 

moneyisking

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is no one really going to be silent about fact that oneitis is like drinking poison?
 
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