"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Valentines Day Gift Ideas

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Hey Everyone

Valentines day is coming up, and i'm looking for ideas on what to get my girlfriend. We've been together for about a month so far so i'm not sure what things I could get that would be significant / special.

So far i'm planning Rose/Roses , some candy ..... and i'm kinda stuck on there.


Any ideas will be appreciated

Thanks in advance

P.S: This is a quiet / shy / conservative / christian girl, so nothing too outrageous please
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm not buying anything. I think just being with someone, telling them how you feel about them, a few hugs and kisses and maybe just a flower or something like that is enough. :)
 
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Buy your self something nice with the money! Like a dvd, then invite her around.
 
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My 2c

What i think i am going to do, is buy my chick this silver heart necklace that opens up, and on the inside on each side it will have our names ingraved into the silver.... i think thats a nice gift.... but that depends on how "involved" you are with your gf;) If you are not THAT intimate with her yet, then something small like a rose or maybe a little teddy-bear with a heart on it will do the job just fine;)


Laterz...
 
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Originally posted by djnewb
Hey Everyone

Valentines day is coming up, and i'm looking for ideas on what to get my girlfriend. We've been together for about a month so far so i'm not sure what things I could get that would be significant / special.

So far i'm planning Rose/Roses , some candy ..... and i'm kinda stuck on there.


Any ideas will be appreciated

Thanks in advance

P.S: This is a quiet / shy / conservative / christian girl, so nothing too outrageous please
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Either a couple roses or maybe one of those little heart-shaped boxes of Russel Stoever chocolate. Both isn't necessary, and keep it light and simple. You've only been together a month.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, it's only been a month.. should be light. If it's been more than 6 months.. then perhaps something more $$$pecial is needed. But treat V-day as any other date except with V-day emphasis.
 
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I haven't read the DJ bible in a while, so I don't know if it's covered (it likely is), but why are you worrying so much about buying her something? Just get her something if you want, or take her out and do something, or just stay at home and do something. Enough second-guessing already.
 
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its a waste of time... just another dirty gimmick made ot remove you from your money adn show women how much you feel for them by buying them things... nice picnic down by the beach or some ****, write a ****ing poem or something... the whole single rose idea is a good one, maybe just go somewhere for lunch or something... i really dont get into the whole "Shower woman with gifts because society says I should" kinda deal... if you feel a certain way about a girl you should randomly do that kinda thing anyway if thats what kind of person you are,... why should one day dictate that you should be more loving and affectionate than every other day... meh. money buys *****s, not love.
 
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Bloody commercialism, i hate it. You only live once - yeah i would rather have a savings then buy something extravegent at every single opportunity and have no money left.
 
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bring her to ur place...and cook somethin special dude ....u can get some quick tips from some cook book or well mommy can always lend a helpin hand coachin u up in a couple of days....and of course make sure she survives ur cooking as well ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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forget valentines day...last night i got into a hugee fight with my girlfriend and im hoping its gonna carry through valentines day so i can save money :p that's atleast $50+ of saving.
 
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u had a fight?
well almost the same but well i dumped my girl(massive problems) almost 2 weeks ago..and now i am happy that i get to go to some club on valentines day and just flirt around....if there are any "single" noteworthy girls who are flirtable with ;)
 
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Originally posted by xhikari
u had a fight?
well almost the same but well i dumped my girl(massive problems) almost 2 weeks ago..and now i am happy that i get to go to some club on valentines day and just flirt around....if there are any "single" noteworthy girls who are flirtable with ;)
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bro i heard clubs on valentines day are the best, full of desperate girls with low self esteem because they have no dates on valentines day.
 
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Originally posted by PurpleHaze
bro i heard clubs on valentines day are the best, full of desperate girls with low self esteem because they have no dates on valentines day.
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sounds like good news to me..... ;)
just hope they don't turn into freaks when they are desperate , u know what i mean.
 
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Originally posted by PurpleHaze
bro i heard clubs on valentines day are the best, full of desperate girls with low self esteem because they have no dates on valentines day.
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Is that before or after they start stalking you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by PurpleHaze
bro i heard clubs on valentines day are the best, full of desperate girls with low self esteem because they have no dates on valentines day.
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Desperate...
Low Self-Esteem...

Hmm...you forgot to mention FAT!!!!!!

Oh yeah, and....UGLY!!!!!

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Originally posted by squirrels
Desperate...
Low Self-Esteem...

Hmm...you forgot to mention FAT!!!!!!

Oh yeah, and....UGLY!!!!!

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I bet girls say the same way about guys like you at clubs. "All I see are... fat... and ugly..and balding guys!"
 
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Originally posted by DeathDealer
I bet girls say the same way about guys like you at clubs. "All I see are... fat... and ugly..and balding guys!"
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even if we are not one???? :p
 
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