"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Valentines Day Flowers?

cuzza

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I want to basically give a girl a card and a single flower.

Roses seem a bit cliche... I'm looking for something a bit different. Anyone got any ideas?

Background...
I've been 'seeing' this girl for about a month, though not 'official'. Went from being friends at college to sleeping together, to getting more serious. Probably going to be going out with her soon...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mtlwlu

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find out what her favourite flower is, give her that instead of roses.

And if youre afraid of being too cliche, avoid flowers all together.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Intelligent and affluent people avoid using cliches in their speech and writing.

It shows lack of creativity.

Cliches during holidays are absolutely no different. Be creative if you want to express your feelings. Buying her flowers on Valentine's day = boring.

Buying her flowers on April 20th and having them waiting for her on the way back from dinner = creative, spontaneous, and fun!

As a side note, I used to use cliches on a daily basis. After dating a rich snob I stopped because I realized that it's a subtle but absolutely noticeable class difference. Never use cliches in communication or practice.
 

WhitePimp

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Text a picture of your d!ck (or just a random d!ck if you're security conscious) with a Happy V-Day message. There's no way this can fail.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ArcBound

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WhitePimp said:
Text a picture of your d!ck (or just a random d!ck if you're security conscious) with a Happy V-Day message. There's no way this can fail.
Someone's been reading a lot of roissy lol
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