"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Valentines Day Flowers?

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cuzza

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I want to basically give a girl a card and a single flower.

Roses seem a bit cliche... I'm looking for something a bit different. Anyone got any ideas?

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I've been 'seeing' this girl for about a month, though not 'official'. Went from being friends at college to sleeping together, to getting more serious. Probably going to be going out with her soon...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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find out what her favourite flower is, give her that instead of roses.

And if youre afraid of being too cliche, avoid flowers all together.
 
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Intelligent and affluent people avoid using cliches in their speech and writing.

It shows lack of creativity.

Cliches during holidays are absolutely no different. Be creative if you want to express your feelings. Buying her flowers on Valentine's day = boring.

Buying her flowers on April 20th and having them waiting for her on the way back from dinner = creative, spontaneous, and fun!

As a side note, I used to use cliches on a daily basis. After dating a rich snob I stopped because I realized that it's a subtle but absolutely noticeable class difference. Never use cliches in communication or practice.
 
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Text a picture of your d!ck (or just a random d!ck if you're security conscious) with a Happy V-Day message. There's no way this can fail.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhitePimp said:
Text a picture of your d!ck (or just a random d!ck if you're security conscious) with a Happy V-Day message. There's no way this can fail.
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Someone's been reading a lot of roissy lol
+1
 
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