I understand that and I agree. I thought about everything long and hard this morning, considering just calling her, saying "hey we're done", then hanging up and deleting her socials.
But like I said, maybe I'm doing it for me. I advocated for the face-to-face thing so I think I should be consistent with myself, even if she doesn't deserve it. Hell, in light of her airing this whole thing out over her Instagram story last night I might make that trip just to walk up her driveway, say "you don't deserve this but I refuse to stoop to ghosting and I believe in taking ownership of your decisions. I was going to sit down and talk about how I felt during all this, but you continue to behave like a child so there's a first time for everything...you said you've never been dumped before. I'm done". Then I'd just leave.
That's how I'm thinking currently.
EDIT: I can't quote somebody on a different page, but to the guy who said time on the forum doesn't equal experience: I don't do relationships, this is all very new to me and I'm not equipped to handle somebody so toxic. I'm good at going up to and meeting and sleeping with random hot women, which is how I met this one. I never give advice on relationships because I simply do not know a successful one.