"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bobterminator84

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i need some advice...there is one girl i see occasinely near the place where i work ,i dont know her name,we never talked....but most of the time she vaves at me,gives smile, turn her head as she passes by...
What i wana do is drop the card at her work place saying.addresed to.for that young cute girl with short dark hair.
I have selected u to be my 6th valentine.if the other 5 fall through,u got the job.
My name and phone no.
I found that text here on this forum..
What do u think?any advice?
Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daddy The Pimp

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I dont know man i dont like your approach with a card.

But today i noticed that many girls are so desperate to find a man for tomorrow that they were hitting on me.

I dont know if they are trying to use me to brag to their friends about getting gifts , but im not planning anything for tomorrow since i dont have a GF. And im not planning to go out with a girl who needs me to fill up her ego.

So , if that girl doesnt have a boyfriend , she will probably go out with you. But approach like a man , not with stupid cards.
Just stop her and go caveman on her.

I would wait till after v day and then approach her like a man.
 

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I think she probably won't touch it in fear that she's going to get infected with some deadly disease.

No but seriously, don't do that.
 

bobterminator84

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right than,thanks for advice...i wont do it than...i just go for a cave man approach next time i c her.thanx lads
 
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