"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bobterminator84

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i need some advice...there is one girl i see occasinely near the place where i work ,i dont know her name,we never talked....but most of the time she vaves at me,gives smile, turn her head as she passes by...
What i wana do is drop the card at her work place saying.addresed to.for that young cute girl with short dark hair.
I have selected u to be my 6th valentine.if the other 5 fall through,u got the job.
My name and phone no.
I found that text here on this forum..
What do u think?any advice?
Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Daddy The Pimp

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I dont know man i dont like your approach with a card.

But today i noticed that many girls are so desperate to find a man for tomorrow that they were hitting on me.

I dont know if they are trying to use me to brag to their friends about getting gifts , but im not planning anything for tomorrow since i dont have a GF. And im not planning to go out with a girl who needs me to fill up her ego.

So , if that girl doesnt have a boyfriend , she will probably go out with you. But approach like a man , not with stupid cards.
Just stop her and go caveman on her.

I would wait till after v day and then approach her like a man.
 

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I think she probably won't touch it in fear that she's going to get infected with some deadly disease.

No but seriously, don't do that.
 

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right than,thanks for advice...i wont do it than...i just go for a cave man approach next time i c her.thanx lads
 
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