"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vacation girl is visitting..all summer.

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This time last week I was in garmisch germany, having the time of my life, snowboarding, boozing it up and chilling with some hott snowboarder chicks[we were in an american hotel].
They snowboarded with su all week, and some of their guy friends were with us as well[c0ckblackage to the max].
But I had a good connection with the hottest of the group, and on the last night they finally came to the bars with us. They came an horu after we were there and my girl bought me beers after i ahd already had many jagershots n beers...i went to the point of mild-blackout. she was pretty sober as i was told.
We ended up in the girls room and hooking up[her friends were on the other bed watching tv and my friend was passed out asleep on the bed with us]. It was a good hookup. haha i gave my first hickeys ever[i think they are ugly and never give em cause they get girls grounded...she actually got grounded cause fo me].
Cool chick, i worked all week for that last ngiht together, it was a good time. If she lived near me, she'd be relationship material. and i dont say that often.

my luck? shes coming here[her cousins live here...weird coincidence] this summer for i think the whole summer, except when shes in va beach[and my frined hwo was with us OWNS a house inv a beach..so we'll probably chill there as well..]

Weird situation guys. I've been talking to her on aim and on myspace[haha i know u all hate it]. her friends took pictures of us hooking up that i have now lol. but i mean, i really like this girl. its oneitis in a mild-stage. I mean...what would u do in my situation?
i dunno, this is just weird. she wants to hangout when she gets ehre though..how often should i talk to her online? should i mention stuff like about other girls if she asks? ant tips in general?
fvck. i guess i just felt like making a post about this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In my opinion pat.... this is a win/win situation for you.

If she comes this summer... if you don't have a girlfriend...then its only good news, and even if you do, she can become a good friend and person to hang out with and spend time with.

As for talking to her... personally i'd say don't talk too much now a days, maybe every couple of weeks just to see what each other is up to, but mostly when its getting closer to summer, begin to talk to her more and more to rebuild the connection. I have a summer fling just like you, and so far this has worked perfectly.
 

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trizz, thanks man.
haha she was at the olympics over this last weekend. she bought me a beanie n shes mailing it to me. haha.

yo we should wingman eachother sometime man. catch me on aim, apathetic124.
thanks
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
This time last week I was in garmisch germany, having the time of my life, snowboarding, boozing it up and chilling with some hott snowboarder chicks[we were in an american hotel].
Jokes my grandparents live in garmisch. Where did you go skiing there.
 

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the Hausberg and Alpspitze. we went up to the Zugspitze one of the days we were there. crazy view from the Zugspitze man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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