"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Vacation girl is visitting..all summer.

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This time last week I was in garmisch germany, having the time of my life, snowboarding, boozing it up and chilling with some hott snowboarder chicks[we were in an american hotel].
They snowboarded with su all week, and some of their guy friends were with us as well[c0ckblackage to the max].
But I had a good connection with the hottest of the group, and on the last night they finally came to the bars with us. They came an horu after we were there and my girl bought me beers after i ahd already had many jagershots n beers...i went to the point of mild-blackout. she was pretty sober as i was told.
We ended up in the girls room and hooking up[her friends were on the other bed watching tv and my friend was passed out asleep on the bed with us]. It was a good hookup. haha i gave my first hickeys ever[i think they are ugly and never give em cause they get girls grounded...she actually got grounded cause fo me].
Cool chick, i worked all week for that last ngiht together, it was a good time. If she lived near me, she'd be relationship material. and i dont say that often.

my luck? shes coming here[her cousins live here...weird coincidence] this summer for i think the whole summer, except when shes in va beach[and my frined hwo was with us OWNS a house inv a beach..so we'll probably chill there as well..]

Weird situation guys. I've been talking to her on aim and on myspace[haha i know u all hate it]. her friends took pictures of us hooking up that i have now lol. but i mean, i really like this girl. its oneitis in a mild-stage. I mean...what would u do in my situation?
i dunno, this is just weird. she wants to hangout when she gets ehre though..how often should i talk to her online? should i mention stuff like about other girls if she asks? ant tips in general?
fvck. i guess i just felt like making a post about this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In my opinion pat.... this is a win/win situation for you.

If she comes this summer... if you don't have a girlfriend...then its only good news, and even if you do, she can become a good friend and person to hang out with and spend time with.

As for talking to her... personally i'd say don't talk too much now a days, maybe every couple of weeks just to see what each other is up to, but mostly when its getting closer to summer, begin to talk to her more and more to rebuild the connection. I have a summer fling just like you, and so far this has worked perfectly.
 
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trizz, thanks man.
haha she was at the olympics over this last weekend. she bought me a beanie n shes mailing it to me. haha.

yo we should wingman eachother sometime man. catch me on aim, apathetic124.
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Originally posted by Patrick124
This time last week I was in garmisch germany, having the time of my life, snowboarding, boozing it up and chilling with some hott snowboarder chicks[we were in an american hotel].
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Jokes my grandparents live in garmisch. Where did you go skiing there.
 
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the Hausberg and Alpspitze. we went up to the Zugspitze one of the days we were there. crazy view from the Zugspitze man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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