"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How much should I spend on my gf for Valentines Day. Im 25, shes 23. She is not rich but her family does well. She is not snobby or high maintenance, very down to earth. But at the same time she owns and buys alot of nice things, and associates with friends who do the same. So while shes not rich, i do think i gotta get her somethin decent or else ill look like a hobo.

How much should I spend? Is a $100 piece of jewerly good? Too much? Not sure what else i could get. Also if i do find a good piece of jewerly or soemthin to get her, should i get somethin little on the side to go with it, like chococalte or somethin. I plan on gettin flowers and one big gift, is that good?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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godsgifttowomen said:
Don't spend more than $50.

Also.. how long have you guys been going out? Also what kind of these has she gotten you before?

GGTW
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Oh i left that detail out. By Valentines day it will be 7 weeks i guess. Not very long, so i dunno. Im not gonna ask her wat she got before for v-day, that would be weird.
 
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DJinTraining06 said:
Oh i left that detail out. By Valentines day it will be 7 weeks i guess. Not very long, so i dunno. Im not gonna ask her wat she got before for v-day, that would be weird.
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Seven weeks isn't very long. That $50 limit sounds pretty good.

Make it personal, though.
 
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A bottle of astroglide and a box of rubbers. But the trick is in the delivery... slip them under the table to her somewhere very public - like a coffee shop.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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realsmoothie said:
Seven weeks isn't very long. That $50 limit sounds pretty good.

Make it personal, though.
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Whats personal? We love 80's sitcoms, thats r inside thing, but thats not a vday gift is it? Is jewerly personal?
 
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DJinTraining06 said:
How much should I spend? Is a $100 piece of jewerly good? Too much? Not sure what else i could get. Also if i do find a good piece of jewerly or soemthin to get her, should i get somethin little on the side to go with it, like chococalte or somethin. I plan on gettin flowers and one big gift, is that good?
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Is jewerly personal?
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Ok, you're officially a troll in my book. I was just thinking you were a chump, but when you doubled-back to bring up stupid sh!t again...

How on earth did you manage over 500 posts before anyone popped you? Good job.

Getting flowers, chocolate, and one big gift? Hallmark loves you, mark-ass-trick-b!tch troll.

If you weren't a troll, you should still get banned just for being a waste of bandwith.

general discussion is pretty out of control... good thing you don't have a moderator named "Red Dragon" or "Trogdor" to burninate the peasants and the countryside.
 
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You should dump her. That'll teach her to celebrate worthless holidays.
 
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