"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJinTraining06

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How much should I spend on my gf for Valentines Day. Im 25, shes 23. She is not rich but her family does well. She is not snobby or high maintenance, very down to earth. But at the same time she owns and buys alot of nice things, and associates with friends who do the same. So while shes not rich, i do think i gotta get her somethin decent or else ill look like a hobo.

How much should I spend? Is a $100 piece of jewerly good? Too much? Not sure what else i could get. Also if i do find a good piece of jewerly or soemthin to get her, should i get somethin little on the side to go with it, like chococalte or somethin. I plan on gettin flowers and one big gift, is that good?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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godsgifttowomen said:
Don't spend more than $50.

Also.. how long have you guys been going out? Also what kind of these has she gotten you before?

GGTW
Oh i left that detail out. By Valentines day it will be 7 weeks i guess. Not very long, so i dunno. Im not gonna ask her wat she got before for v-day, that would be weird.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
Oh i left that detail out. By Valentines day it will be 7 weeks i guess. Not very long, so i dunno. Im not gonna ask her wat she got before for v-day, that would be weird.
Seven weeks isn't very long. That $50 limit sounds pretty good.

Make it personal, though.
 

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A bottle of astroglide and a box of rubbers. But the trick is in the delivery... slip them under the table to her somewhere very public - like a coffee shop.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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realsmoothie said:
Seven weeks isn't very long. That $50 limit sounds pretty good.

Make it personal, though.

Whats personal? We love 80's sitcoms, thats r inside thing, but thats not a vday gift is it? Is jewerly personal?
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
How much should I spend? Is a $100 piece of jewerly good? Too much? Not sure what else i could get. Also if i do find a good piece of jewerly or soemthin to get her, should i get somethin little on the side to go with it, like chococalte or somethin. I plan on gettin flowers and one big gift, is that good?
DJinTraining06 said:
Is jewerly personal?

Ok, you're officially a troll in my book. I was just thinking you were a chump, but when you doubled-back to bring up stupid sh!t again...

How on earth did you manage over 500 posts before anyone popped you? Good job.

Getting flowers, chocolate, and one big gift? Hallmark loves you, mark-ass-trick-b!tch troll.

If you weren't a troll, you should still get banned just for being a waste of bandwith.

general discussion is pretty out of control... good thing you don't have a moderator named "Red Dragon" or "Trogdor" to burninate the peasants and the countryside.
 
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You should dump her. That'll teach her to celebrate worthless holidays.
 
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