"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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V-Day Date Ideas

bishopdonjuan

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Hey Don Juans,

It's been a long time since I've gotten to V-Day and only wanted to spend it with one girl, so I just wanted to get some input from you all as to what are some good date ideas. Should I follow the role of normal action dates, or combine that with more inimate settings?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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V-day is overrated. It's just a scam by stores to make AFCs spend money.

I usually get drunk with my friends on V-day.
 

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Intimate if you are going to do it. I guess it depends on the person, some think it's overrated but I don't see it that way.
 

bishopdonjuan

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How about an action date followed by intimacy. Like the local pool hall, dinner, then back to my crib where i have the optimal mood set?
 
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