Peaks&Valleys said:
So she's basically telling you she wants to be fvck buddies, and you're trying to figure out what your next step is?
Well,
the last thing you should do is take her out to dinner on V-Day. :kick:
Trying to play it safe, by treating her like a lady? Is that what she wants? Or does she want to
keep it simple and just fvck?
Why are you trying to change the course of the relationship by treating her like you want an LTR? Are you trying to get to know her? Don't you know her already? Keep it simple.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212354 (check out Lesson 8)
In the comment section:
Well the previous night we were both drunk and i had her had on my d1ck basically so that's understandable if she wants to fvck then but we're sober the next day, talking normally. I'm gaming her and then get myself into this whole dinner scenario....
chat convo is below:
me: i was having a good time watching the scrubbing thing
i forget the name
are you free friday?
Sent at 2:38 PM on Tuesday
HB: it's called curling
what's friday?
i wish i had tv
then i could just watch at home
i really enjoy the olympics actually haha
me: yeah i like it too
Sent at 2:46 PM on Tuesday
me: I promised i'd take you to dinner so i wanted to know if you're free
Sent at 2:47 PM on Tuesday
HB: lol
why do you need to take me to dinner?
Sent at 2:49 PM on Tuesday
HB: because i keep my promises
or atleast try my best to
HB: haha why did you promise me dinner?
Sent at 2:50 PM on Tuesday
me: because i wanted to hang out with you
Sent at 2:54 PM on Tuesday
HB: haha fair enough
Sent at 2:57 PM on Tuesday
me: let me know what you think about dinner so i can start planning
Sent at 3:01 PM on Tuesday
HB: on friday?
it's valentines day
haahha
Sent at 3:07 PM on Tuesday
me: well we still need to eat, v-day or not. I'd rather eat with someone I can get to know better
if it makes it easier it can be casual
Sent at 3:12 PM on Tuesday
HB: haha
why
did you want to take me somewhere fancy?
like la bernadin?
lol
Sent at 3:18 PM on Tuesday
me: i think i'd go home hungry after that dinner
not sure yet but i want to take you somewhere nice
HB: why?
haha
you don't owe me anything
me: promise is a promise
HB: did we make some sort of bet or something last night?
that i'm unaware of?
haah
i just don't understand why you made such a promise
lol
me: im pretty stubborn
and i knew i wanted to see you again
so i promised i'd take you out to dinner
Sent at 3:22 PM on Tuesday
HB: haha
Sent at 3:24 PM on Tuesday
me: i'm hoping you'll say yes
otherwise i'll be a liar and that would suck
HB: omg this girl we just interviewed just blew it
Sent at 3:26 PM on Tuesday
HB: you know the thing is
i don't mind hanging out
Sent at 3:29 PM on Tuesday
HB: it's just i'm not really looking for anything more than what it is
if that makes sense..
Sent at 3:32 PM on Tuesday
me: ok
well what type of food do you like?
HB: Haha
You're making me laugh
me: good
HB: Just want to make sure we are on similar pages
I don't even know what I'm doibt
Doing
me: you are clear
and you are going to dinner with me
we're going to have a great time
that's all i can really say as i have to plan the rest
HB: LOL
Sent at 3:37 PM on Tuesday
me: do you like American, Italian, and Thai food?
Sent at 3:43 PM on Tuesday
HB: haha i'm fine with everything
but i know you're vegetarian
Sent at 4:20 PM on Tuesday
me: ok
so i'll see you 7pm
friday
time and place tbd
Sent at 4:50 PM on Tuesday
me: i'll call you and let you know
Sent at 4:51 PM on Tuesday
HB: haha,...
it's going to be hard to get a reservation at that time on that date
me: i'll figure something out
HB: you're very persistent haha
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I basically forced myself into the dinner boat and i think backing out of that would be weak. I need to eat anyway so we might as well eat and then bunny it up afterwards.